Hi all, from reading these forums and from general searching, there is, at least that I can find, a very small pool of information for the "newbie" to the lifestyle. Which is a shame and makes me wonder, how many would dive into a bigger pool of info? Perhaps I'dve asked the below questions earlier in life!

If I missed posting info that retains to any of the questions, feel free to ask. Hell, feel free to ask anyway!

Ok:

My wife is 25, I am 38, would we be in the average age range in the Toronto scene?

Where is, in your opinion, the better places to go to start exposing ourselves (giggle) to new experiences? A particular club etc?

Is there a forum/notice board elsewhere that advertises? (ive written that badly, I'm meaning similar to CL personals or better preferably)

How private, is private generally?

Are we expected to "click into place" in most circles or are people generally helpful in explaining the do's and dont's?

What would you avoid as a first timer looking back?

Thanks for reading everyone, I look forward to any and all replies.

WiC